2017 has been a year of LIFE.
2017 was the year that marked five years since my diagnosis of stage 4 Neuroendocrine Tumors (NETs)/Carcinoid Cancer. As there is no cure in my case, there is no remission. Yet, here I am looking forward to the sixth year, many believing that August 2012 would be my last birthday. I celebrated my 62nd this past year, and I look forward to the next!
2017 has been a year of EDUCATION.
I studied Spanish in 2017. I also enjoyed lectures and discussions in Philosophy, Ethics and World War II History from professors who are brilliant and love their subjects. I am taking all these classes as a “senior audit student,” so my tuition is waived. I do not receive a grade or credit for taking them, though they will show up on my transcript that I have taken the classes. I received my Bachelors degree nearly 16 years ago, but I love to learn, and I like the challenge. I will continue doing the same in 2018.
2017 has been a year of CREATIVITY.
It was only three years ago that I picked up a paintbrush for the first time to put something on canvas. If you talked to my friend and creative arts “coach,” she would tell you that it has been difficult for me to break through certain emotions to get in touch with my child-like creative self. Yet, this year, I painted 10 canvases, nearly all of them with faces. Though they may never become famous works of art, they are MY works of art, as childish as they may seem to others.
2017 has been a year of FRIENDSHIP.
This year I have come to realize the truer meanings of “friendship” or “relationship” to others, and what it means with friends, family and acquaintances, and in business and pleasure. Learning to recognize those relationships, which are uplifting to all parties involved, as well as when there is little reciprocity, has been of the utmost of valuable lessons. I have continued to learn that, by accepting others for who they are, it is simply about love. It does not necessarily mean that relationship will continue. Sometimes, we must learn to let go of others. It is equally as important to accept and love oneself, and make choices that are best for us and our well-being.
2017 has been a year of GRATITUDE.
There are so many things this year for which to be grateful. Having had the opportunity to learn about myself and others, I am grateful for the chance at all the experiences and lessons that have been presented, even when it is necessary to deal with the painful realizations that all things and people are not as they seem. However, though we encounter those few people in life who choose to stand in extreme judgment, spewing ugliness, and doing their personal best to drag others down into the mud with them, there are many more people in life that we encounter…
…there are so many more who are accepting and beautiful, uplifting and encouraging, supportive and loving, and who will be there without judgment.
These are the people in life who are truly the most genuine, and will share themselves freely…vulnerable and without expectation.
If nothing more was learned in 2017, I have learned about genuine love from and for others and I am so grateful for these people in my life.
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WHAT IS IN STORE FOR 2018?
Of course, none of know the answer to that question! We set goals, make resolutions, and have the best of intentions, before something happens to put a glitch in our plans, derailing all those lofty dreams.
All we can do is keep moving forward, approaching life with gusto and working toward being a better version of ourselves.
2018 will be a year of LIFE.
I know that I must continue to live every day that I am given. I will wake up and look forward to whatever adventures each day presents to me.
2018 will be a year of EDUCATION.
I will continue to audit classes in 2018. I am looking forward to what more I can learn. I love keeping my brain engaged. I look toward taking more classes that encourage more of the creative side of my soul, not just the academic.
2018 will be a year of CREATIVITY.
The first class at the college for which I am signed up is a Jazz Musicianship class. I have known the professor for nearly 20 years. I have never taken a class from him, but I know that he is a brilliant bassist, having seen him perform with various bands over these two decades. I look forward to putting in practice more improvisation and taking more risks as a singer. I look to resurrect the music in me in a way that gives me joy, getting back to what I consider my “jazz roots.” As well, I’m in collaboration right now with another bassist to start to work together in 2018, possibly with a bass and vocal duo.
I have several more canvases that I have to paint. I want to continue to explore acrylic painting, and to approach my style of painting with as much freedom as I have begun to embrace,without worrying about what others think of it. I am also planning to enter a couple of them in a juried art show designed for veterans to share their art.
2018 will be a year of FRIENDSHIP.
Oprah Winfrey said, “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.”
These words from Ms. Winfrey are representative of my biggest goal for 2018, as I too often waste too much energy and time with people, situations and things which I let “eat at me” and rob me of my inner peace, and halt my joy. Sometimes these are things that are beyond my control. At other times, some will purposefully do whatever they can to “pick” and get a reaction. HOWEVER…
Let me point out AND repeat the operative words:
I waste…I waste…
No matter what others may do to us, or try to do in order to cause us grief, even though it certainly does affect us, it is ALWAYS MY OWN RESPONSIBILITY to make sure that I care for my own well-being. Like so many others before me, I must take care not to be sucked into the old patterns that some will try to heap upon me.
2018 will be a year of GRATITUDE.
Let us all be aware of (and own) the choices that we make, as these will be the ones that make the biggest differences in LIFE and views of success in 2018. Let us all be GRATEFUL for those lessons we learn by what life deals out. Let us all be joyous in the genuine relationships that we are given that truly lift us up to happier hearts and a desire to be better to one another.
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2018!
2018 WILL BE A YEAR OF LIFE!